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Hoping for “Crop Failure” (LWB)

You are the first and most influential example of a Christian your children will encounter. What they see you do, they'll do. What they see you skip, they'll skip. What they hear you say, where they see you go, what they see you watch, your values, your morals, your ethics... they see it all. And if you can do it, why can't they?

The Faith of a Child (LWB)

[Excerpt] Each and every child who chooses Christ will also face this turning point in their lives. As a child, it costs nothing to follow Christ. As an adult, it costs everything.

Remember when we talked about sin being the best news there is? If your child has grown into an adult who chose sin over Christ, let this be an encouragement to you. Jesus came to set people free. There is hope with repentance.

But to ignore their sin, to pretend that they’re okay, is not loving. It is condemning them without hope and without help. If nothing changes, it’s because nothing changed. At some point, a person must cross from death to life. And it does no good to pretend that a dead man is alive.

Surviving the Teen Years (LWB)

[Excerpt] By believing that rebellion is inevitable, parents make the mistake of beginning to excuse it at the beginning stages, feeling it's not a big deal yet, or even believing it's just not a big deal. Sometimes they avoid the confrontation simply because they're too tired or busy, or even afraid.

The worst part of believing that rebellion is inevitable is that it allows parents to excuse their children's behavior by believing that they can't help it, it's normal, or even natural for them to behave in these ways that are, in reality, sinful. And of course, if the parents excuse it, the children will not only excuse it, but indulge it.

Growing Godly Children (LWB)

[Excerpt] Do you want your children to be innocent and pure? Do you want them to make good decisions? Do you want them to be trustworthy and responsible? Do you want them to know what they believe and why? Do you want them to confident and secure in their identity as your child and God's child? Do you want them to love Jesus more than anything else?

If you want to reap beautiful, God-loving adults in the future, you must be willing to take the time and make the effort to invest in from the beginning.

The Blessing of Children (LWB)

[Excerpt] There's a prevailing mindset of children existing for their parent's personal pleasure and comfort. We see children as a blessing when they're convenient and as a curse when they're inconvenient. Thus we have seen the rise of abortion pre-birth and abuse post-birth. The root of it all is extreme selfishness - the mindset that children for me and my personal pleasure.

To gain a godly perspective on children, we must first understand that our children belong to God and that He has allowed us to have them in order for us to raise them to follow Christ. This is a great responsibility - it is serious, important work. And we must, in turn, take it seriously.

To raise a child is to be more than just present, it's to be strategic. One day this child that you have been entrusted must make his or her own decision to follow Christ; and in the few years that you have with your child, your job is to prepare him or her to choose Christ over self and over the world.

The Covenant of Marriage (LWB)

[Excerpt] Divorce begins before a couple is even married. Before a man and woman even exchange vows and rings, most marriages are already in decline. By the time a couple reaches the alter, they've already begun to take each other for granted, they've already begun to think marriage is going to make them (and keep them) happy. They already believe that it will be easy and effortless, that it will finally complete them. But these are all lies.

Marriage is hard, and a good marriage is even harder.

The Importance of Failure (LWB)

[Excerpt] We just learned the importance of submission in marriage, and the responsibility a wife has to encourage, bless, and benefit her husband. But what about the exceptions, those cases where a husband is abusive, passive, or just plain ol' dumb?